Sometimes you need to look for something outside of yourself in order to become more yourself. This may not make much sense to begin with but I will be explaining more in this blog post as it has made me feel more positive about who I am lately. My anxiety and low mood took overContinue reading “Someone Inspirational”
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Rely on Yourself
When we were younger and at school or nursery; having our first proper interaction with lots of others of the same age to us, we generally want to be able to fit in and to be socialable. This is because we are training ourselves to develop socially and to not be alone which should helpContinue reading “Rely on Yourself”
Be Content
I am currently on my Easter holidays and I have a few weeks off. I usually find myself worrying about doing enough, usually trying to see enough people and make sure I’m being social enough. I also have 2 young girls to entertain. Enough? Who decides what is enough? I think with the pressures ofContinue reading “Be Content”
Understanding
Throughout my blog posts I’ve written about being more positive about yourself and focusing on your life more rather than worrying so much about others. In order to do this we must better understand ourselves; what we value and what we like to put our energy towards. Whilst this is important we must also tryContinue reading “Understanding”
People Pleasing
It’s difficult to say no sometimes or even say no without feeling guilty. I know I’ve found it hard to not shift that guilty feeling and then overthinking it. Trying to please others all the time is something that I felt had become too much. When I was younger I was always saying yes toContinue reading “People Pleasing”
True friends
Friends are supposed to make you feel good. It should be easy and not feel like you’re making tons of effort. If you’re putting a lot into a friendship and not getting much back then it’s time to end it, let it go. It makes you feel deflated and like you are not worth theirContinue reading “True friends”
Friends and Anxiety
2020 was an odd year. It has been hard for everyone. Not being able to see people has certainly affected us mentally. I have always been somewhat anxious around groups of people whether I know them all or not but what has struck me the most is how much I have missed seeing certain people.Continue reading “Friends and Anxiety”
Focus on Your Own Life
In today’s society where social media is all around and used by so many people showing us their lives, it is hard to try and steer away from that. It is the main reason I got rid of Facebook and Instagram because I was finding myself feeling insecure and insignificant looking at other people’s livesContinue reading “Focus on Your Own Life”
People Change
One of the things I didn’t realise is how disappointed I was to find out how much someone had changed. I knew that people change but, for some reason, I found it hard to accept. The reality is that people do change. It can be difficult if you were best friends or close with thisContinue reading “People Change”
Time to be positive 